No, I've been totally me when talking to her.  I can't buy her a ***** (Nor would I really want to, because that cuts into MY ********...) because she's the hostess at one of my bars, so she's working, while I'm there ********.  Ok!  Well I had the right idea then!  I did everything you said!  Whims told me to be an asshole and pretend like I don't care, but be nice at the same time.  That didn't make any sense to me because she's not that kind of girl.
*Now what I'd REALLY like to know is how do I outshine the other guy?  :dunno:  I'm really new to her and they have history, but I can tell she's on the fence about committing to him again.  But they're still having sex...  :******: