What are women more turned on by?
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This is really a silly question because women are intelligent and independent thinking individuals.
Yes, there are gold diggers out there but they are in a low minority. Women tend to look for security, a best friend, someone that listens and a provider. Please note, women today are more than capable of providing and living on their own. Women don't need men to succeed in life.
Please note, what turns on one person may not turn on the other. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Myself, without any conscious effort, I attract certain types of women and I also prefer certain types of women, body type, age and personality including the way they dress. They tend to be younger than me...14 to 21 years younger, making them 21 to 28, hot body, curvy where it counts, busty, intelligent and very sensuous, sexy and looking for an older man. These were NOT bimbos. Not one ever went for money. My age, looks and maturity was a turn on for all of them. They were turned on by the idea of seducing an older man...well, one they were attracted to that is. They liked me for my intelligence and personality. They all approached me. They all liked me for who I am. All very intelligent and very mature for their age and yes, great sex!!
Strange thing is, I've never been approached by older women or women over 30. Just happened that way. Doesn't mean I wouldn't date anyone over 30.
A lot of women (just like men) love sex. Women want (just like men) many things in life.
In my case, the question should be: What type do you attract and do they want you for sex, looks or money? It's always been the first two, never the latter.
These are my experiences. I hope others can give their own for others to learn.
Yes, there are gold diggers out there but they are in a low minority. Women tend to look for security, a best friend, someone that listens and a provider. Please note, women today are more than capable of providing and living on their own. Women don't need men to succeed in life.
Please note, what turns on one person may not turn on the other. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Myself, without any conscious effort, I attract certain types of women and I also prefer certain types of women, body type, age and personality including the way they dress. They tend to be younger than me...14 to 21 years younger, making them 21 to 28, hot body, curvy where it counts, busty, intelligent and very sensuous, sexy and looking for an older man. These were NOT bimbos. Not one ever went for money. My age, looks and maturity was a turn on for all of them. They were turned on by the idea of seducing an older man...well, one they were attracted to that is. They liked me for my intelligence and personality. They all approached me. They all liked me for who I am. All very intelligent and very mature for their age and yes, great sex!!
Strange thing is, I've never been approached by older women or women over 30. Just happened that way. Doesn't mean I wouldn't date anyone over 30.
A lot of women (just like men) love sex. Women want (just like men) many things in life.
In my case, the question should be: What type do you attract and do they want you for sex, looks or money? It's always been the first two, never the latter.
These are my experiences. I hope others can give their own for others to learn.
Lacey Black
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Both!!! haha jk.... Definitely Looks
same like with us ... looks ...
Will E Worm
Conspiracy...
Money talks.....always. :hatsoff:
The majority will pick money over anything else.
The majority will pick money over anything else.
Eric Lindros
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Based on this short list, I would go for money.
RealMenSwallow
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I'm gonna procrastinate and never answer this poll, but I will leave you with this. There is no one thing that women are turned on by. By creating a poll, you assume that attraction is based on one sole foundation throughout the universe. But the fact is, no one can really truly, beyond the shadow of a doubt, describe attraction. A lot of people want to claim attraction is based off of who you would most like to bear children with, but how can that be sound reasoning when we all watch porn, and masturbate to women who are usually above and beyond who we would normally date. I know for a fact, I would watch Amy Reid fuck on film, and I'd have a go at her myself, but to be honest she's really not my type. I love her to death, and I believe she does incredible work, but would I be with her for eternity? Hardly... I know that's going to surprise the fuck out of all of you, but I couldn't be with her everyday.
I think we all want to know what women are turned on by, but there isn't a reason. It's different in each case. Sometimes those of us on the bored stay single, and don't have dates, why? Is it because we love porn? No. It's simply because we haven't found that women yet, who is turned on by us. You see there is somebody out there somewhere turned on by you. I don't care who you are, or how ugly you think you may be, there's somebody out there for you. You may never meet that person, or it may not last, but there is somebody there. It's difficult to stay hopeful I know, believe me I know, but someday we'll all find some happiness in this world with a women who finds us to be their only turn on.
I simply can't say I have met a women who ever answered any question, even remotely like this one, the same. Plus you have to account for hormones, which can affect what turns them on more than other times. Perhaps you do something super kinky one week, and next time you feel up to it again, she doesn't ever want to do it again.
This is a rough thread to classify, because there isn't really an answer. In the porn business, I would have to say it's money. Because that's why they got into the business, to get paid to have sex. Sure they may enjoy the sex they have, but they are happy they are getting paid.
But if we're talking about the women in our lives, it can't be money. No one makes that much money. And I guarantee nobody on this board, makes that much money either, or else we wouldn't be angry or frustrated, coming on here to get off on porn. And it can't be looks either, because you can't base a relationship on looks. It just doesn't work. Being only physically attracted to someone can only go so far, after that it's over. It means nothing more than you spanking the plank to your favorite babe.
I think I took this too seriously :dunno:
I think we all want to know what women are turned on by, but there isn't a reason. It's different in each case. Sometimes those of us on the bored stay single, and don't have dates, why? Is it because we love porn? No. It's simply because we haven't found that women yet, who is turned on by us. You see there is somebody out there somewhere turned on by you. I don't care who you are, or how ugly you think you may be, there's somebody out there for you. You may never meet that person, or it may not last, but there is somebody there. It's difficult to stay hopeful I know, believe me I know, but someday we'll all find some happiness in this world with a women who finds us to be their only turn on.
I simply can't say I have met a women who ever answered any question, even remotely like this one, the same. Plus you have to account for hormones, which can affect what turns them on more than other times. Perhaps you do something super kinky one week, and next time you feel up to it again, she doesn't ever want to do it again.
This is a rough thread to classify, because there isn't really an answer. In the porn business, I would have to say it's money. Because that's why they got into the business, to get paid to have sex. Sure they may enjoy the sex they have, but they are happy they are getting paid.
But if we're talking about the women in our lives, it can't be money. No one makes that much money. And I guarantee nobody on this board, makes that much money either, or else we wouldn't be angry or frustrated, coming on here to get off on porn. And it can't be looks either, because you can't base a relationship on looks. It just doesn't work. Being only physically attracted to someone can only go so far, after that it's over. It means nothing more than you spanking the plank to your favorite babe.
I think I took this too seriously :dunno:
tartanterrier
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Money = Security So women would proberly veer more towards the doe 
WOW Neither for me and that is being VERY Honest! I like Confidence and you don't have to have money or Looks to have Confidence!
Both in a long term relation, which girl wants to raise ugly kids and wake up every morning with a man worth crap. Not one girl in their right mind can be turned on by that.
But to get them going for one night looks is all that count.
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The title under my name is annoying the hell out of me its like it can read my freaking mind.
But to get them going for one night looks is all that count.
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The title under my name is annoying the hell out of me its like it can read my freaking mind.
Money for me.
Lets say I'm faced with two assholes. Ones a rich asshole. The other looks like Brad Pitt. If I HAD to pick between the two to be my life partner, I'd pick the successful one. Looks are superficial and never last. Not to mention, a mans physical appearance will never benefit me. Money and security will.
Having said that, I'm not a golddigger, nor do I judge a man by the size of his wallet. I obviously pick compatibility, chemistry and personality over anything. But if it came down to it, and I HAD to pick between having a man who was hot, or a man who was successful...successful would win hands down.
Lets say I'm faced with two assholes. Ones a rich asshole. The other looks like Brad Pitt. If I HAD to pick between the two to be my life partner, I'd pick the successful one. Looks are superficial and never last. Not to mention, a mans physical appearance will never benefit me. Money and security will.
Having said that, I'm not a golddigger, nor do I judge a man by the size of his wallet. I obviously pick compatibility, chemistry and personality over anything. But if it came down to it, and I HAD to pick between having a man who was hot, or a man who was successful...successful would win hands down.
Will E Worm
Conspiracy...
Would it be the same if they were both really nice guys? I'm assuming by the rest of your statement that it would.
Women are more turned on by attractive men. If you put big stack of $100s on a table and a naked Brad Pitt on another table and asked women to choose which one to fuck, they will all pick Brad Pitt. The question is not "what would women prefer--money or looks."
Personally, I think the security aspect is bullshit TODAY. It was certainly true before women could vote, work outside the kitchen, show a little skin in public without threat of getting flogged and arrested, etc.
Today, women who marry for money/security end up trying to shop their way to happiness. They try to have busy social lives so that they don't have to spend time with their husbands and so that they interact with "friendly" people rather than their husbands.
Today, a woman needs to be self-reliant and career-oriented. She should find the most attractive man, who has a steady career and who she actually has common interests with.
Life is too long to be rich and miserable.
Personally, I think the security aspect is bullshit TODAY. It was certainly true before women could vote, work outside the kitchen, show a little skin in public without threat of getting flogged and arrested, etc.
Today, women who marry for money/security end up trying to shop their way to happiness. They try to have busy social lives so that they don't have to spend time with their husbands and so that they interact with "friendly" people rather than their husbands.
Today, a woman needs to be self-reliant and career-oriented. She should find the most attractive man, who has a steady career and who she actually has common interests with.
Life is too long to be rich and miserable.
