Man, a lot of guys don't have attitude ...
Sure, you get to lay with a lot of beautiful women. I think we all want to do that.
But I don't think men really appreciate the discipline and control it takes to be a male pornstar. It's not "all fun" -- or should I say -- some people would not find a lot of it "fun." It's really about attitude.
It's about realizing that the "stop/start" and "control/sustainment" aspects are just part of the job. It's about flowing with them and making do. I know a lot of guys get frustrated with just their girlfriends in bed, and if they have those issues, they don't change when you're on-screen. So if they're not enjoying it in "real life," they're not going to be any more "satisfied" on-screen.
I mean, just because a woman does more in bed to a man doesn't automatically mean your chemistry and actions automatically sync any "better" than with a girlfriend (or wife for that matter). I don't think guys realize this, and it has a lot to do with attitude. If they aren't "satisfied" in their "real life," it won't automatically "pick up" by having beautiful women on-screen.
Am I right about "attitude"? Or off-the-mark?
Oh, BTW, glad you see you lust for Claire Dames and Alexis Silver. Many I hope you get to enjoy Alexis soon. She looks like one total curve of a woman, head-to-toe, along with one sweet but sultry and playful attitude.
-- ProfV, a man who knows he couldn't be a pornstar (despite my self-discipline and control, I know I don't have enough)